We all must understand that Life is a life-long classroom lesson(project) that is always teaching us, Buddhist Proverb says it best “You have no friends, You have no enemies, you only have TEACHERS”. The sooner you realize this, the better!

As you mature and get a handle on what life is all about, you begin to observe that life is a do-it-yourself, lived mixed bag of good, bad, and ugly experiences, and the responsibility of working hard, smart, planning, and living a successful and fulfilled life falls largely on YOU.

This simply means that from this point forward, the burden of shaping your adult life lies on your shoulders, no one else’s, and continuously asking sufficient significant relevant questions to help achieve your goals is also a form of Self-Care that also helps move things forward.

The most significant question to ask yourself is, “What can I do today, this week, this month, and this year to get my life going in the desired direction that I have always dreamt of?” What am I waiting for?

Self Care book ipad
Do check out the Self-Care Journal and Workbook on Amazon

Do you truly believe there is more to life?

Do you truly believe that there is more to you than meets the eye, stop what I call the “excusitis dis-ease”, and start living your best and fulfilling life today! Believe me, there is always more if you are willing to watch, learn, observe, listen, grow, humble yourself to nature, try, do and repeat the process again and soon you will realize that life was meant to be a brilliant, magnificent, amazing live-in experience, nothing more nothing less. We just overcomplicate things instead of simplifying our lives.

If you are either on the verge of giving up or are sick and tired of being mediocre, you can make a decision to start WINNING, by casting a YES vote in your favor Today! Once you get started on that journey you will never look back again.

You don’t have to continue being stuck in that same old rotten rut or being continuously haunted by feelings of inadequacy and underachievement! Believe in yourself, you can make something of your life. Just don’t give up! Keep going there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

5 most urgent significant critical life purposeful questions you must ask yourself:

1. Why is it critical for you to improve your life and achieve your objectives?

Understanding the significance of why you want to achieve certain things in your life, is the motivation that will drive you to accomplish the goals that you have set for yourself.

Why do you want to achieve these goals you have set for yourself?

Why do you want to improve and change the trajectory of your life direction?

Why do you want to learn a new skill or follow a career? Why do you want to start your own business?

Why do you want to boost your self-esteem?

The answers to these questions must be compelling enough to move you into ACTION.

As they usually say, if your WHY is not big enough, or does not scare you, keeps you awake at night, or keeps nudging at you even when you keep ignoring it, then your dream or your vision is not BIG enough to drive you into action. This helps you when you are encountering obstacles or hardship along your journey because then you will always circle back to your WHY to help you to keep going even when the going gets tough.

2. What do you want to achieve with your life’s purpose here?

What do you want to do with your life? This will require you to go deep within yourself and unravel the question why are you here or put it simply why did you choose to come here? This is probably one of the most challenging and substantial questions that you will ever answer. The answer to this question will lay the foundation for your destiny.

Once you have clearly identified what you want to do with your life, please note that it will take time as the answers will not fall out of the sky, so be patient with yourself. However, it then becomes the focal point of everything you plan to do.

Knowing what you want to do gives you clarity and a much-needed sense of purpose and clear direction. It also prevents you from engaging in sidetracking, time-wasting ventures, and unnecessary distractions and dramas that have no connection to your purpose.

3. How do you know when you are on the right track?

How are you going to manage your life as a project? Have you got a plan to achieve your objectives? Do you have a step-by-step plan? There are certain tools that you will need to be in place to help you tie together all the pieces of the project you plan to accomplish.

Having a plan is very crucial because it is the road map to your goal. It will help you know what information you require to make each phase of your life a success. For example, if you want to start a business, how do you plan to achieve your goals? If plan A fails have you got an alternative option?

4. Who do you need to become as you follow through with your plan?

In order for you to achieve critical goals, you need to acquire certain qualities and characteristics. Who do you need to become as you strive to achieve your goal? Do you perhaps need to become more confident, committed, consistent, decisive, and action-oriented?

Do you need to take calculated risks? Maybe you need to be more assertive. Identify the much-needed, helpful, and relevant qualities that you need to adopt in order for you to achieve your goals.

“Make your life a masterpiece; imagine no limitations on what you can be, have, or do” – Brian Tracy.

5. When and how will you know that sections of your project have been achieved?

Every goal you set must have a deadline; otherwise, it is just a wish list; and any plan you have must be turned into action and must produce tangible results as evidence of your efforts. When are you going to be done with at least one specific goal you have set out to accomplish?

When are you going to be fulfilled that sections of your project are moving you towards or away from the goals of your bigger project? For instance, setting a timeline goal(start and finish dates) to learn a new relevant skill that will help you apply it in order to generate revenue for your business. Remember, this is an ongoing, never-ending do-it-yourself life project.


Your life is an ongoing do-it-yourself project. If you want your plans to succeed and live an abundant, fulfilling life, then start taking action almost immediately. Start Today!

Thank you for visiting our website and taking the time to read this article, trust that you will find it useful. Please share, engage, and if you want to reach out do not hesitate to comment below, we will definitely respond.